Extra Safe Space #16
Extra Safe Space is a place for things you’ve never told anyone before. These will always be kept completely anonymous. To tell your secret, fill out this form (it doesn’t ask for or record any identifying info). That is the only criterion. Or read other people’s here as they come in.
I’m pushing 50 and my labia seems to be getting floppier by the minute. And sometimes I pee a little when I sneeze or cough. I always thought a perk of not having kids would be keeping my 20 yo vagina forever but here I am.
And what’s worse, as perimenopause creeps up with the otherwise unexplained weight gain I’m trying all of these workouts and not a single jumping jack without wetting myself. I bought the pads for it and I do these workouts at home, pausing every few minutes to go to the toilet (which then totally screws up the whole Tabata timing thing) but peeing myself nonetheless and skip rope is even worse. I am kind of wishing the comments here could also be anonymous? I have things to say to other posts but don’t because of the lack of anonymity… and this from one who is decidedly lacking a filter, so much so that I can’t think of anything I have never admitted to someone else (and do therapists count BTW?)