Jane’s Phone: Ghosting My Delivery Guy and My Boyfriend

Here's a tangentially related (to my phone) story that happened two years ago: I found out that my long distance (the best kind) boyfriend went and got married to someone else. But then I had to remind myself that I had dwindled in my communication with him from daily text replies to weekly to monthly to maybe writing back every 6 months and then a year or maybe even two or three (I'm terrible with time) without contacting him. I still liked him though!

I have what feels like so many obligations and deadlines in my work life that I don't want to have to answer to someone I love on any kind of regular basis. This is horribly immature and selfish and one reason I generally prefer being single.

PS I feel so bad that I left this delivery person on read yesterday! I did not mean to, Logan! Get back in touch!