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Making Bad Choices With Rain Phoenix: A Reader Worries "I Think I Hooked Up With My Best Friend's Husband."

Today's atypical relationship advice column involves this AJPTer's intriguingly bad situation involving her new friend and neighbor. PLUS How you can…

Aug 26

"It Turns Out My Sexual Kinks Were Actually Unhealed Trauma"

After a violent assault as a teenager, Jasmine didn't know the difference between being open minded ...and reenacting physical abuse. PLUS: Jane is many…

May 14

Are You the Asshole: “I Totally Sweat the Small Stuff.”

Joél helps a nitpicking reader who just wants the cap put back on the Visine, OK?!?!

Dec 17, 2024 •

Are You the Asshole: “Am I Bad If I Don’t Break Up With My Girlfriend?”

Joél Leon has some thoughts. (And you can all chime in.)

Nov 13, 2024 •

Jane and I Worked With a Sex Criminal Who Terrorized 2 of Our Colleagues in the Creepiest Ways

Now that Peter Braunstein is up for parole, we want to know: Does he still hate fashion editors?

Nov 1, 2024 •

If 9th-Century Monks Understood A Woman's Right To Choose, Why Don't We?

Family planning, including abortion, was totally accepted in the Middle Ages. What's so behind in our modern thinking?

Oct 26, 2024 •

I Was Determined to Be a Sex Goddess and Tantric Butt Massage Was the First, Chaotic, Kinda Necessary Step

It was surprisingly healing, and I recommend it with proper vetting.

Oct 17, 2024 •

My (Non-Blatant, No-Nuance) Red and Green Flags

In relationships and in life. Those who get it, get it. Those who don’t — probably added to the red flag list.

Oct 16, 2024 •

Feminista Is Watching This So You Don't Have To: Ali Wong Single Lady

Oct 15, 2024

Feminista Is Watching This So You Don't Have To: Love Is Blind Season 7

Oct 8, 2024

So-Called Cheeky Bathroom Signs Really Piss Me Off

Especially when they are not inclusive.

Oct 2, 2024

I Catfished My Straight Friends for Fun

You should try it, too. Ms. Holland Tunnel has just the tips.

Oct 1, 2024 •

Holland Tunnel aka Sam Laubach

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