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It Happened To Me: I Was An Emotionally Absent Mom Until My 10-Year-Old Got Hospitalized For Punching Through A Glass Door

A suicide threat, an ER visit, and inpatient therapy for our young daughter changed our family forever.

Apr 14

It Happened to Me: I Burst Into Tears During A Threesome

In one night, in a bedroom, I lost him, then her, and then an all-expenses-paid trip to Miami.

Apr 9

No, I Did Not Tell A Reporter I Had Sex With Drew Barrymore

Though I fully acknowledge being the one to bring it up (yet again!!! Jesus, Jane!) here. I also have no spouse. Hey Wikipedia, let's clear a bunch of…

Apr 7 •

It Happened To Me: I Got Really Wasted at My Husband’s Ex-Wife’s House and Said Horribly Embarrassing Things

It could have been the third too-strong margarita, but nothing can excuse me marveling to the ex, "Isn't it weird we've had sex with the same person…

Apr 3

It Happened To Me: I Became A Model (After Just 5 Decades Trying)

My first ever modeling job is in a major magazine out on newsstands right now. Will that correct all the problems in my life that I thought it would?

Mar 29

It Happened To Me: I Read My Husband's Journal And My Whole World Changed

Looking for the lease agreement for my husband's new car, the "paperwork" I found ended my marriage. PLUS: Your invitation from Jane

Mar 25

It Happened To Me: Bruce Springsteen Hand-Wrote Me A Card

My life as a music journalist has gotten me backstage with Billie Eilish, tea with Neil Young, and an apology from Slash.

Mar 22

The Big It Happened To Me Finale: The FBI Contacted Me After My Boyfriend's Exes Doxxed Me Here And In Other Publications

The exes' threats against me escalated. Then I got the call that a report was filed against Ricky under MY name, using my birthdate and phone number…

Mar 21

It Happened to Me: I Was Raped (x 3)

I didn’t realize that after I was raped the first time, I became a walking billboard to future rapists and abusers.

Mar 17

I Thought My Boyfriend's Involvement With His Ex Was Innocent ...Until She Said I Was Trash And The Cause Of Her Death

Whether or not you've been following it, here's the origin story of my messy relationship saga — when I learned the hard way not everyone has a healthy…

Mar 7

It Happened To Me: I Got Hit By A Drunk In A Truck. I Learned And Forgot That A Few Hundred Times

I acquired the same type of brain injury former representative Gabrielle Giffords suffered when she was shot in the head.

Feb 26

It Happened To Me: My Boyfriend's Ex "Came Back From The Dead" To Harass Me Even Worse (Part Two Of A Saga)

Faked screenshots and made-up herpes diagnoses… never underestimate a former lover who already went too far.

Feb 24

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